10 Commandments of Teaching Your Teenager

Many parents sent their Learner drivers to us after damage had been done to the family car. It would have been wiser to start with a professional instructor. Here are ten principles as a guide for parents when venturing out with a novice driver.

1.	Don't use a vehicle that is not mechanically sound and roadworthy. It is against the law and can be very distracting, inviting trouble.
2.	Must wear proper footwear. Thongs, high-heels, platform shoes or driving barefoot is unacceptable.
3.	Do not start (or finish) first lesson in your driveway or on a public road. Choose a large empty space. If possible, let a professional introduce the basics first.
4.	Don't expect too much on the first drive. One teenager may be totally different to a brother or sister. It may be safest to stay in first gear in the carpark until the brake, accelerator and steering are reasonably under control.
5.	Don't shout or criticize. Concentrate on one aspect at a time and give praise when a task has been properly learned and demonstrated.
6.	Explain before starting out: 'If I say stop, it means clutch down and press the brake (or just brake in a car with auto transmission)'. It is best to also explain that unless you give other directions, it means go straight ahead. Keep your hand discreetly near the handbrake.
7.	Teach concepts according to the skill level of the new driver. Don't be too optimistic about the ability to manage heavy traffic at an early stage. Avoid risks.
8.	Give early directions e.g. "Not at this street, but at the one after, turn left. " Use landmarks e.g. "See the green fence? Turn left at the street after that."
9.	Buy a stick-on mirror (available in auto-accessories shops) for safety.
10.	Everything can and has to be taught. Even simple concepts (e.g. press accelerator down harder going uphill) must not be taken for granted.